HSK 6 · Function Words
不由得 bùyóude “can’t help (doing)” in Chinese
Same in Traditional
What 不由得 means
- can’t help (doing)
- cannot but
- can’t help
How to say 不由得
不bù4th tone, falling
由yóu2nd tone, rising
得deneutral tone, light and short
Grey pinyin is a neutral tone: say it short and light. More on the neutral tone
不由得 in a sentence
How 不由得 is built
Each colour is one part of the character. Parts repeat across thousands of characters, so learning them makes new words easier. See all 214 in our radicals chart.

不 is a single shape of 4 strokes. Learn it whole, then watch its stroke order below.
Memory aidPicture a bar 一 across the top that nothing below can get past: not, no.

由 is a single shape of 5 strokes. Learn it whole, then watch its stroke order below.

- 彳step · chì
- 旦dawn · dàn
- 寸inch · cùn
Memory aidA hand 寸 picking up a shell, once used as money, while out on the road 彳: to get.
How to write 不由得
不 4 strokes · 由 5 strokes · 得 11 strokes
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Sources: meaning and pinyin checked by a native Mandarin teacher against the official HSK lists. Extra meanings from CC-CEDICT (CC BY-SA 4.0). Example sentences from Tatoeba (CC BY 2.0 FR). Character parts and stroke order from Make Me a Hanzi.